OK ling story short I have two beautiful children with my partner of 9 years. We've had a few ups and downs over the past few years due to insecurity and I did cheat on my partner their had been times in the past more than a few where he has done things to me in such as bruising me from kicking me holding me down etc but I won't go into that as I put that down to being unfaithful. I've moved out and come back a few times. I last came back in May and things have been great. Until.. He started to constantly check my phone I wasn't too bothered at first but then it became all the time while I was sleeping etc and he's a real computer geek so knows how to get into everything. Well I finally put a stop to this and changed my password on my phone. He was fine at first but then because I was so tired from working full time I was really quite to say I was just exhausted. Bit he got his suspicions that I was being unfaithfull. I'm not. And one night asked to look through my phone I said no your not I've changed my password for a reason etc. He kept demanding and I just went to bed. Well I woke up with my phone gone and my partner in my face demanding me to put my password in which I declined. Even though I changed all of my social passwords and emails, google account etc. He seemed to get into them from his laptop and changed my passwords. Yes he was still waking me to unlock my phone saying if I loved him and respected him I would let him get reassurance through my phone. By this point my son was in bed with me and kept arguing so I decided to go downstairs. When he grabbed my phone out of my hands and I tried to get it back. He grabbed both my arms in order to get my phone but ended up bruising me. And called me every name under the sun as u can imagine and that I can move out. After this I juts went to bed with my kids and he finally left me alone. Now he wants to sort things but I want to leave but I would like to stay till Xmas for the children. He keeps saying we can sort things as we always sort everything. I just need some advise please. So stuck as I do love him so much 