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Veganmamaa · 20/10/2018 23:06

Me and my partner of three years broke up yesterday. He moved all his stuff out last night and he's got our daughter staying with him last night and tonight. I miss him soo much. I've pushed myself into keeping busy all day but it's late and my heart hurts and I'm so anxious. We wasn't working out and we'd broken up and got back together a lot and tried to fix it. I can't help but feel like there's maybe something I can change. I regret breaking up so much but deep down I know it's for the best for my daughter and partly myself. I keep almost texting him and i don't know how to help myself. It's causing my already bad anxiety to worsen! An advice would be great! Thanks.

OP posts:
GreenLantern53 · 21/10/2018 01:21

shouldnt you be missing your daughter? is he going to be the rp?

Veganmamaa · 21/10/2018 02:02

@GreenLantern53

Off course I miss my daughter! But I know she's coming back tomorrow and I've been FaceTiming her. I miss him in a sense that I know it's over and I want him back. I'm a full time mum and he will be having her in the weekends he's free.

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Seniorschoolmum · 21/10/2018 02:28

Op, if you’ve been through the split & get back together loop a few times, maybe it is time to be on your own.

Concentrate on your dd and yourself. You don’t NEED to be with anyone. Spend a couple of weeks building a new routine and include more time for you. Rest & recover. Exercising, pampering, reconnecting with friends & family. Then see how you feel.

NotTheFordType · 21/10/2018 02:46

We wasn't working out and we'd broken up and got back together a lot and tried to fix it.

The best thing you have done as parents is to stop trying, thank you.

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