I've been with my current GF for 14 months and most of the time, it's been great, we are very open with each other and I thought, had no secrets.....until today.
I've not been feeling good for a few days, tired, restless and a little pain when peeing, there are no external signs on me, no lesions or marks on my skin. I was almost screaming today when I had a pee, so got in the car and nipped to the local A&E, I waited for 30 minutes to be seen, I was with the consultant,who initially thought I might have cystitis, I've had cystitis and this was not like the pain of that, I gave another painful pee sample and after blood were taken, I had to wait for a while.
Eventually, as it was beginning to get dark, I was called back in, the doctor started using words that I didn't understand, but I was bombshelled with her possible and most likely diagnosis, she thought I might have genital herpes.
Now I'm and have always been very careful, have regular checks and apart from cystitis, which wasn't an STD, I've been clear of anything nasty. I got home, called my GF and told her, what she said next made me very angry, she decided to tell me that she'd caught genital herpes from an ex some 10 years ago. Last September, we both went to a clinic to be checked over and show there was no underlaying issues.
You could have knocked me down with a feather, I asked her why she hadn't told me, she replied, I forgot. I told her and said, "I need time to think about this", told her I'd call later, then rung off.
This is new territory for me and I feel dirty, cheated, conned, suspicious and untrusting of her, this has really rocked me and put me on the defence, I'm going to have to think about this and take a few days to consider my next move, at this moment, I don't feel like I want to be with her and that I should end the relationship.
Any advice please?