Am I being a mug do I need to end things?

[youngassmum]

hi guys been with my partner on and off for 4 1/2 years, we split in nov 2016 for about 5 months in which I got my own place with our little boy (now 3) we rekindled and I got pregnant quickly she’s now 6 months old, he has urged me to move in with him and his son who he has full time. He constantly has his friend round every night I’m there or not, it’s like I don’t even exist I’m just here for the kids to be together and he themselves one doing the school run etc. I just feel like I need to end things but I feel so much for my stepson and my kids for this to happen. I’m just unhappy I have spoke to him how I feel and I have been staying at my home more because of this but is it time to leave??

You sound like you know what you want to happen and are looking for permission. You don't need permission.

Yes I think it's run its course. You've given it a second chance and it's not working. Time to move on and become someone's priority rather than another piece of furniture.

There was a reason you split the first time. Now you have a second reason. You know in yr heart what you need to do.

Your man sounds like my ex.
I suddenly realised I wasn't his love interest, I was his daycare. Broke my heart.
But the upside is that I found someone better, and you will too. (I'm fat ugly and 40).
I know it's shit to take in at the time

Set yourself free from this man child.

yeah I think I know in my head what i need to do it has run it’s course and I’m miserable as shit. thanks ladies 😊

He urged you to move in for his benefit. Move out and tell him how you feel. That's the beauty of having your own place .

that’s what I have done hopefully he will realise with 1/2 his family been away and having to make the effort to see them rather then them just being there xx