High school reunion

[chattyemma]

Last month me my partner had a invite to our high school reunion and he doesn’t want to go which is Saturday night.

We didn’t get together in high school we get together about 2 1/2 years ago. we met at a kid soft play.

A little background I was one of the popular girls in our school and he was shocked that when I stammer and he called him self a bully’s best friend As he was bullied for most high school.

If you seen pictures of him back then and now you wouldn’t think of the same person because he has changed so much he has lost his weight he is now 6 foot 2 And he’s lost his stammer and looks amazing.

Everytime I try and bring up about us going together to the reunion he just says that he’ll stay home with my kids and I can go on my own because he would rather sit through mamma Mia than go.

Any idea on how I can talk him into going?

Unfortunately you can't make him want to go.
He doesn't want to.
I think you need to respect that.
I understand you are proud of who he has become and it would be great to show him off now and basically 'show them'
But he doesn't want to do that.
Go along on your own, loaded up with lovely pics of him and show him off that way.

You don't. You're being selfish.

He doesn't have happy memories of the people or the place, and doesn't want to go.