Help?

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Hi so I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I love him but I'm confused sometimes he tells me I'm so beautiful then he said I'm ugly why would he such hurtful words I feel insercure now and he said I'm only joking what should I do

You know the answer :(

Bin him and run

Would dump him immediately. Emotionally healthy, decent and kind men do not say such to their girlfriends and his intention is to indeed make you feel more insecure. He will further mess with your head and boundaries if you allow him to continue.

That's not funny or excusable. Someone that loves you does not get a kick out of hurting you. You deserve better.

Woah! You can't stay with him. This is the beginning of abuse.

He's negging you. It's a form of control and abuse.

Finish things with him. That's a awful thing to say. You don't say things like that to some one you love.

I feel insercure now
And this is exactly what he wants.
He's an abusive asshole!
You need him OUT of your life... and fast.

Should I talk to him about it?

Unfortunately.... you cannot reason with an abuser.
They will never ever see it is them.
He will turn it around to be your fault.
I can guarantee it!

You should however, talk to Womens Aid.
0808 2000 247
They can help you to see this for what it is.

And what ever you do.... do NOT have joint counselling with him.
Counselling for yourself might help though.