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Does it ever get easier?

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Catherine0201 · 15/10/2018 09:48

My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few days ago. The only explanation was that he isn’t happy and when I said we can work on things he said he doesn’t feel like it will help. He did this over the phone. I feel absolutely devastated all I’ve done is cry to my mom for days and I can’t eat or sleep. He text me after saying he will always love me, I ignored him for a few days and then messaged him yesterday and said that I hope we can work through things and that I love him also. He hasn’t responded. All of my belongings are at his house as I live with him and he owes me money so it’s not like I can even cut contact. I just want him back so badly we have such happy times and we made plans this week to do such lovely things. It came out of no where I’m so confused and crushed. It sounds pathetic but I genuinely just don’t want to be awake, every minute is far too painful for me to experience. :( I have to go round at some point this week to get my things, I’ve asked him to be there so we can talk, maybe go on a walk or something and try work things out. I dont know I just feel so alone :(

OP posts:
Belina · 15/10/2018 13:55

listen you WILL get over this. you have lived longer on this planet than with him
just please dont beg him
write your feelings down or what you want to say to him and then burn it, do it everyday if you have to but do not let him know how you feel and never beg a man

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