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Dating App Advice

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Sportyman · 13/10/2018 20:11

Dear All.

first post so please be nice :)
so I have been chatting and dating a woman for 7 weeks now, I know not very long at all.
in that time we have met up 4 times, stayed the night in a hotel on one occasion. texting many times every day, a lot of texts to be fair.
all appears to be going well, especially given there is a 2 hour drive between us.
we came together as I was visiting friends and she dropped me a message (on bumble) and it just snow balled from there.
I came off bumble 3 weeks later or so as I couldn't be texting/dating more than one at a time.
slight issue for me is, I know that she is still on there.
one could argue that she has every right to be.
yes I do "go back on" to see if she was still on there, and yes still is today. so,
how much should one read into that?
at what point do I mention it to her, if I should at all?
and if I mention it to her, how far should it be taken?? as in could I see if she has any recent conversations?

many thanks for any helpful advice

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theworldistoosmall · 14/10/2018 12:26

I don't understand why passports and bank cards have been shown.

Even after 3 months, I don't always let guys in my home. In 7 months I have let one in and one picks me up. These are guys I have been seeing on a weekly basis over the past 7 months. The local pub is different as I meet lots of people there so not a big deal, plus I don't do the pda stuff.

Sportyman · 14/10/2018 17:08

I did that as a reassuring point for her, given that internet dating can be a minefield these days, you don't who is who. I had nothing to hide, she then knows who I am, if she wanted to do checks on me then she could.
I didn't see it as a bad thing, more positive for her benefit.

I accept your other point, very valid. as mentioned I've changed my point of view on things. just go with the flow and see what happens.

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