Brace yourselves because this is a long one but I really need your opinions. Just to give some background married 16 years, 3 kids and both work full time.
Here's the thing: my husband has always had a low ish sex drive but hasn't come near me in three months and he has become more and more selfish and lazy. When I try to talk to him I get defensive answers of well I have been at work and I am tired or well we are both busy aren't we a don't have time to spend together. I work much longer hours than he does but clean the whole house, cook half the meals, deak with paying all bills, kids appointments, homework etc. Am I married to a man that frankly can't be arsed?