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What to do about DSis and birthday?

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WheresYourBreadAt · 13/10/2018 12:31

It was younger DSis's (Lucy) birthday this week so we have been celebrating yesterday/today. Other DSis (Jo) was going to drive down yesterday evening and surprise her (Lucy has SEN). Jo text me yesterday afternoon to say she was staying at her boyfriend's last night instead and would join us tomorrow. DMum was on shift at that point (Jo knew this) so DM doesn't find out til this morning when she gets back that Jo hasn't come over.

Now Lucy is wondering who is coming to stay (you have to basically rearrange the flat to put 2 extra beds in (Jo and I don't live there) and so there's a spare bed made up atm.

DM is on the verge of saying to Jo don't bother coming later today as she's pretty annoyed. But then Lucy will miss out. Do I say just go along with it for today and then tell Jo later that you're annoyed with what's she done? Is she BU? I think we might be but then we've been planning this a few weeks now and bought special food for today's breakfast and lunch etc.

Obviously names changed.

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Antigon · 13/10/2018 12:36

Jo is BU for flaking on the celebration, especially as Lucy is now wondering who the extra bed is for.

Is Lucy expecting to see Jo today? For her sake, I would let Jo come over but your DM should have a word with Jo that she needs to keep to plans unless she has an emergency.

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