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Is he doing that on purpose

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oldssoul · 12/10/2018 15:12

Hello. I would like some opinions please. DP works in a security company. Part of his job is to drive colleagues from their homes to work , from work to home etc To my understanding this wasn,t supposed to be part of the job but it became part of the company's policy. Anyway , i fully understand that he has to do it but it bothers me that drives women to they houses etc.I understand that is irrational and i dont want to cause problems so i just asked him not to mention every little detail i just dont have to know. Today i received a text on how busy he is and a screenshot of him having to transfer various women to their houses and other places, detailing names, times, addresses, I will say again i know that it should not bother me but was the screenshot and details really necessary? He knows that it bothers me why do i have to receive that.

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Andromeida59 · 12/10/2018 15:14

Why does it bother you so much? It sounds like he's sending the info to you so he can be open with you. I think this is more about you than him. It does sound rather irrational.

whiskeysourpuss · 12/10/2018 15:14

That's a massive breach of the GDPR & if I was a colleague I wouldn't be happy about my home after being given to all & sundry

BitchyChuckle · 12/10/2018 15:17

Data protection breach!

mogratpineapple · 12/10/2018 15:17

Does sound a bit OTT. Surprised he has the time to list everything with pics if he's that busy. If you have asked him not to do this and he still does, that is mean. Tell him if he does it again you will stop looking/answering his messages, or something along those lines. There has to be a consequence to this is he is showing contempt - he doesn't care about your feelings.

mogratpineapple · 12/10/2018 15:18

Or you could text him back and say "Boring!"

Trinity66 · 12/10/2018 15:19

That's a massive breach of the GDPR & if I was a colleague I wouldn't be happy about my home after being given to all & sundry

Absolutely, how creepy

TheOneWith · 12/10/2018 15:21

Security my arse.

He’s a creepy jumped up taxi driver who loves winding you up by the sounds of it.

Tell him to bore off or you’ll report him to the imaginary security company he works for, for breaching data protection/confidentiality.

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