Hi everyone!
This is my first thread/post on here so I don’t really know what to expect. But I’m desperate for some advice!
So I’m 21 and a mom to a 3 year old little boy. Over 19 months ago my fiancé and little boy’s dad committed suicide in our first family home. It came as a total shock and nobody saw it coming. Our relationship wasn’t the best and it had been rocky for a while but we always stuck by each other and powered through the hard times. However, since his death his family and friends say have blamed me for his death saying I should have noticed a change in him, I wasn’t good enough for him, I didn’t treat him right.. so many different accusations have poured out over the last year and as a result we haven’t had any contact in 12 months.
Even though I haven’t seen or spoke to them they have continued to harass, bully and abuse me online. Anyway, 2 weeks ago I started seeing a guy. I’ve known him for years and used to work with him when I was younger and already my ex in laws have contracted him, doing anything in their power to ‘scare’ him off and I’m worried it’s working. I’m just worried that they’re going to control and try to ruin my life forever. I’m trying to rebuild mine and my sons life and every time I try to do something positive they interfere or put a stop to it. I just don’t know what to do about it anymore. Any advice would be helpful