Need advice

[Jay881988]

Hi my mrs and I have been with each other for over 6years now and we have two lovely kids together. But iv found that she is always unhappy and finding something to moan to me about or have a go at me on a daily bases. I have had words with her about this issue but she always turns it back on me and how it’s always me which makes a big deal out of things. It’s getting to a point where she verbly swears at me for the most smallest reason ie like forgetting to get something at the shops

Not quite sure what you're asking but , no one else, not any one is responsible for anyone else's happiness.

If she is unhappy it is up to her to take responsibility for it and work towards a solution to sort it.

You are not her kicking o

Sorry posted to soon

You're not her kicking post if she's had a bad day.

It's not you're fault she's unhappy ( unless you're an abusive , feckless twit )

She's acting like a spoilt brat.

How do I know?
I was that woman

So what I did after nearing driving the poor guy into the ground was:

Changed jobs
Rehoused my 30 year old step son (he loves his new place)
Finished decorating the house
Increase my protein in take (help balanced my menopausal body )

My point is moaning about how shit I felt to my husband was fixing anything.

P.s. we cancelled the divorce.

Meant
Wasn't fixing anything

Thanks for the reply... oh no would I ever dream of being abusive or get physical with her or any women for that matter. It just feels like she’s never happy unless every little thing is done her way. Even today morning she wanted me to come into town with her but due to her moody self in the morning I told her to go without me as I knew all we would do is argue in the car so she just started shouting at me at the top of her voice and swearing which lead me to post this today

That's not on.
Spoilt brat behaviour.
You could of said
'I d love to come with you but only if this is gong to fun. '
And when she started arguing you could gently remind her this was gong to be fun.

This does not sound good.
Will she talk if you sit down and outline it to her like you have to us?
Would she allow you the opportunity to talk without interrupting?
Does she work?
Do you have children together?
What is the house situation? i.e. mortgage / rent / joint?
How are household tasks split?

She works part time. I have many times outlined what I have on here but she always ends up shouting and gets angry.
We rent the house out I can’t work due to medical conditions as my right lung only works at 30% and have spine problems. She works and comes home and sits on her phone while I cook and serve her food to her. I look after the kids drop my oldest nursery drop mrs to work look after new born pick my oldest one from nursery feed her bath her walk the dog clean the house shopping pick mrs from work and so much much more