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How to give a number

11 replies

Nicegirl0101 · 10/10/2018 20:08

Hi. Just a question. Used to see a guy at work every day on breaks. He left few weeks back. Few peeps told him i like him. He tried talking or catching my eye few times but i was always to shy an flustered to start a convo.
Now i see him on my route to work.
Today i tried to chatch his attention as he past on his bike. Stupidly shouted oi at him. How can i jump out car an ask him to swap numbers. I miss him badly on breaks. Didnt realise how much i liked him .. should i just jump out an stop him an say u single swap numbers etc.

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Nicegirl0101 · 10/10/2018 20:09

How can i tell he wont shout at me. To scared to do it. Incase...

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Nicegirl0101 · 10/10/2018 20:14

He used to know me by my car. But bought new one since he left. He never smiled when i said oi. But made eye contact. Did he recognise me. Would he of smiled if he did.

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Luciferthethird · 10/10/2018 20:15

Does he not have Facebook, instagram?

SpoonBlender · 10/10/2018 20:16

If you don't do it, nothing ever happens.
If you do it, either nothing happens or you get talking.

So do it.

Nicegirl0101 · 10/10/2018 20:34

Dnt knw family name. So cant find on f.book. i wanna do it. But dunno how to. I dunno y i shouted oi. I knw his first name. Wtf possessed me to say oi. Like he a bit of meat. Id not want it to happen to me.

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Notacluewhatthisis · 10/10/2018 20:38

You don't know his surname?

Surely someone at work does.

Nicegirl0101 · 10/10/2018 20:41

No he was quiet. A gent . Everyone liked him. No one knew his family name that i kniw. Only by 1st name. Ive tried looking him up at work. But his contact details are only 1st name.

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Nicegirl0101 · 10/10/2018 20:43

I could call his wrk place his company moved out building to diwn the road on my route to work. But funny thing is. I took his route frm where i see him an it leads to houses an a roads. An his new wrk address is a diff route. I was wondering whoses trying to bump in to who. Prob in my head.

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Nicegirl0101 · 10/10/2018 20:47

Anyway. Post is abt how i tell him . Do i jump out like a crazy woman shouting his first name. An then say u single. I dnt knw or call his work an say keep passing u. Cant stop u on bike so ... etc. Calling work would scare him off. An be stalking. Jumping out looks desperate. Keeping saying hi as he passes. Which one or leave it til he recognises me an see if fate plats out. I guess fate has in a way. I thought i never see him again. But we share route to work. By river an leading to no office blocks.

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Nicegirl0101 · 10/10/2018 20:50

For another reason. When asked if he was interested he said seen her about. Think shes nice. But y never make a real play. He knew i liked him. So would not of been prob conversing.

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HilaryBriss · 11/10/2018 09:43

I definitely would not jump out in front of his bike and stop him - he would probably think you were some kind of nut job in fact he probably already does, you shouted OI! at him

He knew you liked him before but he didn't really do anything about it which says to me that the feeling isn't mutual. When he did try to catch your eye or speak to you, you ignored him.

I would just forget this person, move on and find someone else.

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