Just found out ex has been visiting a place not too far from where I have moved to. I moved a very, very long way in order not to be found. Turns out that he has been visiting a town not too far away. It's a damn site nearer than old city where we lived and he still does. I was in the next town along to the one he was visiting a couple of weekends ago, although whether or not he was there at that time I am unsure. Non molestation order back in place or just hope that this is genuine. In the (over) 20 years we were together he used public transport twice, with a great deal of help. He never visited anybody. It is odd.