Me and my childs father have a three-year-old son together. We've been on and off for 4 years but have known each other over a decade. He has two children from a previous relationship a son with me and his current girlfriend of 3 months is pregnant. So he met a woman while he was in a compromising position she helped him out financially and did things for him. We we're not together at the time but we're discussing getting back together for the sake of our child. We would text every day and talk every day even if he was seeing someone and still sexually active. So he ended up going to jail for DUI and me and the woman actually bumped heads because she was looking for him via fb. Well to sum things up she didn't know about me she didn't know about our son he only told her about his first two childrend mom. She then told me she's pregnant. I got so angry after finding these things out I told her things about him that she didn't know. I disclosed his criminal record I disclosed how many kids he really had I told her of his drinking problem. Once he was released and found out that she knew all this information he blocked me and I haven't heard from him since. I found out that the girl still talks to him but is having problems with him and has already called the relationship off once. Here is the thing even though he has done horrible things to me over the years like I said we have been on and off which the off was due to his infidelities. I do feel bad about disclosing that information to her. Was I wrong should I contact him and apologize? I've never went this long without talking to him but he has done worse things to me and I have forgiven him I fill like for him to get so angry over me disclosing information to a female that he's only been knowing for a few months and just cut me off knowing we have a child together it's a bit crazy. Also I found out he asked her to relocate with him. Should I reach out and apologize should I leave things as they are and just forget about it? Like I said he's done some horrible things to me very horrible and I have forgiven him and for him to just turn his back on me and his son in my opinion so small makes me question if he ever really cared for me and his son. like I said she didn't even know about us she didn't even know that we had a kid together and she didn't even know I existed. Just need opinions/advice on if he will come around and or if I should apologize or just leave it alone. Also I am the one who originally said that we should just be friends so for me to turn around and get so angry and jealous and tell her all this information I feel silly because I really didnt want to be with him romantically anyway because there was no trust anymore. But I did get angry to find that he didn't tell her about us as if we weren't important. What should I do? Also why wouldn't he not tell her about us if they got serious she would of found out..