I've been with my boyfriend for 11 years and we are both 29. In the beginning we had great sex but over the years that's sadly changed. It's got to the point where now I don't want sex with him at all. We have never been overly affectionate as we are just not like that as people. But now I don't want any physical contact with him at all. We did break up a few years back for a while and I had a brief relationship with someone during that time. The problems definitely started way before that but I guess that didn't help. It's not that I've lost my sex drive, it's just I don't want it with him. Is this normal in a long term relationship?
All other aspects of our relationship are so great.
Thanks