No sex

[Mightymouse1]

Hi every one first time posting on here so please bare with me.

Okay here goes have been with partner for 18 months moved in with each other 2 months ago looking at getting married in a year and have bay the following year.

I work away from home Monday to Thursday when I’m home at the weekends we don’t have any sex it has been like this for 2months. Prior to us moving in with each other the sex wasn’t as frequent as it once was a lot of this I put down to medical reasons as that is what I was told. During the week wee talk about when I’m home jumping into bed with each other but nothing happens when the weekends come. I feel as if I am doing something wrong we go out on date nights always buying the partner gifts etc do a lot of the house work when I’m home to be honest starting to wonder if this is going to last.

What do you mean by medical reasons?

If your partner is a man, is there an erectile dysfunction issue ? You say that "you were told there was a medical problem" - surely you would have followed up on this ? Assuming that this is a man, erectile dysfunction is a major problem for them. I know, my DH had it and it was so humiliating for him, he simply stopped all physical contact because he knew it wasn't going to lead to intercourse. I had to talk him into going to a sexual dysfunction clinic where he got some Viagra.

You say that you go on date nights, buy gifts, do extra housework......but if there is a medical / sexual problem, these things are not going to have any effect. You need to address the issues that your partner mentioned before, and which don't seem to have been spoken about since then. Start talking and you might get somewhere.

By medical reasons I mean change in hormone therapy