I'm almost 25 weeks pregnant and these past few weeks i've found it really hard to shake feeling like i'm going to cry at every moment. Last week i was off work ill all week and then last night my husband came downstairs looking really annoyed.
Usually no matter what tiny thing has upset me or made me cross i tell him pretty much straight away, and although it usually takes him a little bit longer to talk he does the same.
So i said you're looking really annoyed are you okay? and he said that he was annoyed but somethings don't need talking about. From that moment i have barely stopped crying. I went to bed not long after, and was still crying when he came to bed. I tried to talk it through with him but didn't want to push what was the matter. I even went in the spare room for a bit as i could tell my crying was making him annoyed because he couldn't get to sleep, but the fact that i'd left the bed made him more annoyed (i can see why).
We chatted in bed, once i finally calmed down a bit and spoke about nice things etc, but i woke up this morning still really upset.
I had said 'i love you' as i got out of bed and he hadn't replied with anything. He has this thing where it's nice for one person to say I love you without the other having to reply, and i really understand that, but he hadn't replied to my 'I love you' comments since all this started last night. Obviously this made me more upset again and i just started crying in the shower about how i'm pregnant and my husband can't tell me whats wrong or that he loves me!!
He said that what ever was annoying him is over and he is fine now.
I know that is a long post that doesn't really need an answer i just needed to vent somewhere!
Thank you if you have read it!