I have no clue what to title this!

[Crossroad]

Hi all!

Many weeks ago, lots of you amazing people helped me to see that I needed to leave my emotionally abusive, man-child of a partner, so that happened and I feel amazing!
Since then I've grown very close with an existing... acquaintance? I've developed serious feelings for him, and he for me. Everything is fantastic, and I'm having a great time with him. My worry is that he is a slightly um 'bigger guy' than I am usually attracted to.
We've cuddled...a lot and I feel super awkward about where to put my hands! I'm attracted to him (you know, sexually ) , but at the same time his weight puts me off?
Just wondering what everyone thinks, you were all so amazing when I last need advice!

If it’s weeks since you left your last partner, then don’t rush into anything too soon.

@Petal , No I'm not. We've just spent time together, walks and films and fireworks displays! I'm enjoying cuddling into him, so I know I have an attraction for him. It's just his weight puts me off a little bit too :/

I’m really not been mean but I would suggest finding some one else.
If you can’t see past it then move on and leave him to find some one that won’t be distracted by it

Sounds like you are in rebound country.

If you're not, then prove it by shagging him and having no left over emotions.

@Ford Could you explain what you mean about not having left over emotions?

It's far too soon.
Just get to know him first.
See if you could really care about.
Stuff like that wouldn't matter then.

I don't know. I think if you like someone enough, nothing will put you off. I suspect he is treating you nicely which you've not had. He is fulfilling a need at the moment but i suspect he's not for long term.