Where do I start. Been together 4.5 yrs have a 3 yr old.
From beginning we said we wouldn’t just have 1 (no close/young family) and obviously I had the wedding ring dangled in front of me like a carrot.
He won’t have any more children, won’t talk about it, slept in spare room for nearly a year. Sex was awful anyways. He is emotionally stunned. Works all hours god sends. And he’s just a Twat. So I made decision I want out, my LG doesn’t need to see pretend parent. I feel so unloved/un respected..
Buy practically I don’t know how to get away. I have name on mortgage n when we last spoke he threatened legal action etc as I’m not taking his house off him, as he can prove I have no financially provided for house. I work parrtime, and pay for all food etc. He knows I have PTSD (which I am under mental health team) so he uses all that against me. I now hate him, I’m numb.
But how do I get outta here, without it getting nastier?
Please please help,,, I am, desperate