Make up on shirt

[Sickenedbyguilt]

My other half went on a lads night last night in blackpool and didn't come til half 4 this morning. I found make up on his white shirt, could it have rubbed off innocently?

If out with female friends, a hug and goodbye or hello peck could be responsible. If not, and he doesn't mention bumping into a female friends, it could be shady.

No no female friends. Yeah I thought as much. Sick of living my life like this we got back together about 6 months ago so I'm torn whether to kick him out we've got two kids so I don't want to confuse them all over again

Could of been a drag queen, they are everywhere in Blackpool.........

Ask, you’ll know if he’s lying x

I've got innocently chatting to people on a night out and given a brief hug.

You don't trust him it seems, with good reason. Are you going to go through this every time he goes out without you? It sounds like a desperate way to live.

Pink heart I never thought of that. I'm going to ask him when he comes back in hes gone playing snooker Mrs Fox he was really drunk so I doubt he'll remember anything anyway

No I don't trust him he's got a history of cheating. I've caught him texting another girl

The answer is yes, it could have. But asking people on here seems a bit pointless compared to asking him.

He obviously thinks he got away with it last time and so he's off again. Get rid, OP. I know it's confusing for the children, but you really don't need someone like that in your life.

The relationship doesn't sound much fun , you don't trust him, do you think you ever will ?

I know lichtie but I just wanted to get some other views on it before I blow my top and over reacting

It isn't much fun really. I feel like a parrot some times keep having the same conversation again and again. We both work he doesn't help around the house I'm forever picking up after him. I'm torn I don't want to hurt my babies

Uh...

As a first step, have a conversation?

If you really dont trust him anyway, what’s the point ? I get the dc part but you’re living your life waiting for him to prove you wrong ,it’s not fair on you

Sethis I'm sick of having conversations with him. It doesn't go in or does for a week then rubs off.

It could be from brushing past someone too...I live in Blackpool and this time of year places are crammed.

He has form for cheating and gets so drunk he doesn't remember what he's doing. It's not a good basis for a happy, healthy relationship.

I think you need to work out if you would actually be happier single and not torturing yourself like this. You can't trust him. That feeling isn't going to just go away

Do you believe he is playing snooker? Or have you thought he maybe somewhere else?

Yeah he is playing snooker I could hear his friend in the background when I spoke to him

OP, blowing your top or overreacting isn't really the issue. I suppose the big issue is that there could be a perfectly innocent explanation... But are you going to believe him if there is, because its highly unlikely he will just confess anyway.

He said he was messing about and went to pick a woman up and throw her in the sea that's where its come from

And do you believe him?

There's no trust and he doesn't do his share at home.
Why are you with him?
The kids can have a good dad and a happy mum with dad living elsewhere.

Throw a woman in the sea?

He sounds more and more appalling as this thread goes on.

Miggeldy obviously it must have been a joke! I know they can but I just don't want to dot to them again