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Struggling to accept break up

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cmajmx · 06/10/2018 14:46

Hi guys.

Me and my children's dad have broke up for multiple reasons and I'm really struggling to accept the break up.

I have asked him for another chance and he's told me no. He's told me he doesn't feel the same anymore. It obviously hurts to hear and I can't change how he feels.

The other night he got drunk and turned up at my home late in the evening. He told me he's "punishing" me by telling me doesn't want me and he hopes that we can work things out in the future.

The next day he's told me he didn't mean any of it and he was just drunk.

I still love him and want us to work. I don't know how to deal with all the emotions right now.

I know he's taking me for a ride and I shouldn't even bother but I feel like that's easier said than done!

How do I block out those feelings and try to move on? :(

OP posts:
Pessismistic · 06/10/2018 17:12

Sorry your going through this I don’t think you can block them right now your hurting give it time concentrate on your dc for now be kind to yourself try to ignore what he is saying he’s punished you already by leaving can’t he see that? some people are just selfish and only think about what they want big hugs 🤗.

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