He just loves me for being me more than I love myself and makes me feel safe.
He loves our kids to death (just like any good dad should) and would move the earth for them and me.
He works very hard to provide for our family.
I'm not working through illness for the past number of years (although I'm trying to set up a small online business from home but it'll earn peanuts), yet never once has he threw it back at me, tried to make me feel bad about it and even though I don't spend much money on myself he would never stop me from buying anything (within reason of course
) for our kids or me!
As a side effect of my illness I find it very difficult being near food so if I'm having a particularly bad day he will cook dinner when he comes home from work.
He's my best friend and has been since I met him over 20 years ago!
I suffer from depression & anxiety and he is always there for me, if he's at work he'll send me wee texts 
During a major incident in my life my depression and anxiety kicked off massively, he totally had my back and publicly defended me (I was totally innocent & he knew that)!
He tells me I'm beautiful (& I'm really not)!
Even if I'm annoyed with him he can still make me smile.
So yep, I'm smug but couldn't careless!!