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A really happy thread

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Undercoverbanana · 04/10/2018 22:34

Lots of threads out there about toxic/dangerous/unhappy relationships.

Can I start one about really healthy/happy relationships?

I would like to say that my DP is lovely, sexy, gorgeous, has the best bum, the best kisses, is kind, thoughtful, generous, interesting, funny, admirable, clever and good in bed.

Also, he cooks, shops, does housework, sees what needs doing and does it without needing to be told the bleeding obvious. He works hard and loves to spend time with me doing things we both enjoy (running, hiking, cycling, travelling.)

I have struggled with MH issues and he has been amazing. He even has the approval of my DD (20).

He is away at the moment and I miss the way he strokes my arm until I fall asleep.

We have been together 4 years.

Thank you for listening.

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gimbles · 04/10/2018 22:39

Log it with 101

Catsatrophe · 04/10/2018 22:40

Are you six?

Catsatrophe · 04/10/2018 22:41

LTB

AnyFucker · 04/10/2018 22:42

Yah boo at the last 2 posters

Glad you are happy, op

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Undercoverbanana · 04/10/2018 22:44

Haha. Thank you Anyfucker.

Too much crap in the world. I wanted to give a little perspective.

Women shouldn’t settle.

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confusedfriend101013 · 04/10/2018 22:50

4 years is nothing. Of course you’re still happy and loved up. Long may it continue.

magoria · 04/10/2018 22:55

It is nice to see the other side, Relationships can be a very sad section to come to sometimes. There are a lot of twats out there.

DP and I have been together 10+ years. Yes we have our odd moments but I feel the same as you do about yours and he does his fair share of the house work etc without me having to mention it.

He is even going to see venom with me (with much eye rolling) this weekend.

And he has a better bum than your DP does OP Grin

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Undercoverbanana · 04/10/2018 22:57

Absolutely agree that these are early days confusedfriend101013.

My previous relationship was 26 years.

I am just so saddened by women posting that they are 5 months in and he is controlling and telling them what to wear etc.

I am 50 and really happy.

I think that’s quite a thing.

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Undercoverbanana · 04/10/2018 23:00

Haha Magoria - I love a good bum.

So happy to hear another good story.

Relationships will naturally have ups and downs, but they should be mostly the ups imho.

Otherwise we are settling. And no woman should.

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