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Ex thinks I cheated

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peppogirl · 03/10/2018 18:20

So today I picked my son up from ex partners mums house, he also lives there. She was out the door before I could get out of the car. She says ex has been getting messages and pictures saying I've been cheating on him for years. She said he told her not to tell me but shes worried about how he was behaving. I asked where he was now and she said in bed so I went up to try and talk to him but he was out of it. He's been really struggling with mental health since we split and Ive been trying so hard just to keep on friendly terms with him and support him to get help. Was on medication but stopped, he's not working at the moment either. I just don't understand who is saying this to him or if it's all in his head. And if he does genuinely believe it I don't know how he thinks I had time to cheat on him, between working and looking after ds. I never go out.

I'm just so scared of how he's reacting. I can't believe he can think I would have cheated. I don't really know what to expect from writing this but makes me feel better writing this. I'm just so tired of trying to make sure he's ok. I just want to move on with my life and not have to worry about him. It's draining.

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Sunnysideup321 · 03/10/2018 18:23

You don't think he'd be aggressive towards you? We're you married? If you were you can contact the mental health team on his behalf.

peppogirl · 03/10/2018 18:26

He has anger issues but has never touched me in the past. No we weren't married. His mum is going to call doctors and the local mental health centre but we have tried to get him help through that before but he doesn't engage.

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hopsonspring · 27/10/2018 16:31

I have been through something similar with an ex, it sounds like you have had a lucky escape. Don't let it get to you, he is probably trying to find a flaw to make himself feel better. I tried helping my ex and he just did not accept the help and it drove us apart.

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