So I made a post a month or so ago, and I was so sure that my husband was not having an affair, I found out a few weeks ago he was! I must have been blinded.
Anyway, me and my husband where togather 10 years, married just 10ish months! 2 young children.
The OW is someone from work (as you all told me it would be!) and he has known her a max of 4 months. He left his job 1st aug and said that he Perseud her from that point, and left his family the 12th aug and took a whim that it would work!
My friends caused a bit of trouble
For him and OW (just giving her some
Home truths) and he is now saying OW does not trust him and she’s told him it’s pretty much over (I don’t believe him)
He never expressed any unhappiness before he left, we was not arguing had a healthy sex life etc.
Can’t see how he could make this choice to leave his family on a whim. His said that he has made his decision and he has to stand by it now.
I don’t want him back (not that he has asked) I want him to want to come back so he knows what it feels like.
Do we think he will ever regret this?