Please don’t flame me. I know I’ve been an idiot. A few months ago I dumped someone who wasn’t treating me very well, he was critical and showed signs of being controlling so I ended it. Cut a very long story short the police ended up getting involved as he wouldn’t leave me alone afterwards. The police told me they couldn’t tell me what exactly but after looking at this blokes record they said they had reason to be concerned for my safety and issued a harassment warning to him.
I won’t go into details but 3 months ago I ended up getting back with him. I am such a fool. My friends are so so angry with me and one of them said she is scared he will physically hurt me. When we got back together he promised me the world and was absolutely lovely to start with but now I’m back in the same old situation. One minute he is telling me Im the most amazing woman in the world and he wants to be with me forever and the next he’s critical and accusing me of cheating. He lies a lot too.
I need to end it but I am so scared. He has done a real number on me mentally as he keeps telling me I treat him terribly and he puts up with a lot from me. Please don’t judge me, I can’t believe how stupid I have been to go back to him but I do need to get out of this.