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Fiancé... AIBU?

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unequivocallyxo · 30/09/2018 20:59

Long story short my fiancé and I have been unhappy for a while. We are very different, have no common interests, met 10 years ago very young and have a DS just starting school.

My fiancé spends hours upon hours on his phone every waking hour of the day. He appears very open about it, he is just chatting to friends etc (apparently), but it is none stop. We barely speak in the house and will be sat on the sofa watching tv and he will be glued to his phone.

Before we had DS I had found him messaging other women on a number of occasions, never really intending to meet, seemingly just "because he was bored". Since we had DS I haven't any solid reason to believe this behaviour has continued although I have never fully trusted him as this was broken years ago.

I am no angel, I use my phone an awful lot as I'm sure many of us do. I have raised this many times and nothing ever changes.

How do I break the cycle? AIBU? This is beginning to feel like the straw that broke the camels back.

OP posts:
Shoxfordian · 30/09/2018 21:07

It doesn't sound like a good relationship. He's probably still messaging other women. Don't marry him when he's not paying you any attention. Doesn't even seem like you like each other much.

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