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Constantly doing household chores..feeling depressed

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FIza11 · 30/09/2018 20:06

Hi friends,just need your help in understanding the way I react when my husband asked me do something...I am full time working mom with two kids... I am already very stressed in my work..the moment I leave office.. I pick kids from the school..I come home and starts working straight away.. so that kids can get to eat on time and sleep on time..I don’t get time to do anything else other than cooking and looking after kids as they are small and they need my help in everything they do.Other than this then there is this never ending long list of household chores ..and if my husband asks me why these things are not in place and house is always a mess I just literally explode.. and we end up fighting badly in front of my kids..my husband thinks he is helping me in a way he can but I don’t think thats enough.. at the end I just feel it’s useless to work like a dog in return get this mental torture and kids suffering..I am very depressed and need help

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Singlenotsingle · 30/09/2018 20:12

Give him a list of things to do when he gets in in the evening. My ddil does this and it works! . Men often dont actually notice when things need to be done. It doesn't need to be confrontational - even if it's just "tidy up", "Hoover the lounge", "empty the dishwasher". That'll only take him half an hour.

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