Basically that's it. I've been SAHM since they were born. They are 3 and 6. I've done all medical appointments, all childcare, pick ups and drop offs. Everything. He's always been a shit dad. Utterly shelfish and neglectful towards kids. He couldn't be further from the hands on dad. Never able to put kids first. I just can't agree to 50-50 shared care. What are the chances of him getting this if we end up going to court, which is very likely as he is a selfish and abusive twat.