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Can't get a girlfriend

6 replies

Nessabban · 29/09/2018 02:49

Basically can't get a girlfriend.Tried every women in 7 bars,/pubs but nothing what am I doing wrong....I'm 49 and have loved in the past but nothing....

OP posts:
NotTheFordType · 29/09/2018 04:12

Please post your online dating profile for honest feedback

heartyrebel · 29/09/2018 04:23

You probably look creepy trying all the women in every bar you go into. Get a hobby or something

brokenharbour · 29/09/2018 04:41

You need to take a different approach!

MrsTerryPratchett · 29/09/2018 04:51

Trying every woman...

The first one is out of your league and all the others see you shopping around and feel like an afterthought.

Take up a hobby. Meet nice people. Some of those people will be women. One may like you.

colditz · 29/09/2018 05:11

Tried every woman! We aren’t a Buffet! Woman 1 might have been flattered, every single woman after that would have been pissed off at you for circling the room like a starving dog and still not choosing them first. All you e done is show every other woman that Woman 1 is prettier than them and if she had said yes you wouldn’t have bothered.

Plus you’re 49 years old, must of the women in bars on Friday nights are Young enough to be your daughter. “Hey bby wan sum fuk” only works if you’re under 21 and you’re not.

Get a hobby. You’ll meet plenty of women your age at exercise classes. One of my friends met his wife at slimming world.

aManForAllReasons · 29/09/2018 06:21

Mate, re-read your post and you'll get an idea what the problem is.

'Tried every women in 7 bars,/pubs' who are you, Del-Boy?!?

Join a club - walking, tennis, badminton whatever you like or join a gym (I met my wife in an aerobics class) and meet people. Then talk to the women as people, not objects, get to know them, feel a connection with someone and take it from there.

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