Hello! Can I ask an opinion please? My best friend who is male has a new gf. This friend and I are extremely close and at times there has been blurred lines and crossed boundaries.. although not physical. For example, he would compliment me a lot but not in an appropriate friend way . We text co tinuosly, work together , seek each other out all day and just click. Huge connection and chemistry . Possibly flirty and suggestive at times on his part. He has major issues around sexuality and finds it difficult to meet and sustain relationships. I believe that he is asexual or else has deep seated sexual issues which render him disinterested in sex full stop I have encouraged counselling many times. . His gf has just come out of an abusive ten year relationship and is very needy and clingy.. his thoughts.. she wants to move forward and fast. He wants to take things really slowly . She says she accepts this and accepts his sexuality. I aired my concerns about this as I feel she is delicate and vulnerable too from what he has said . His needs are being met for the first time in his life , by his own admission ; whereas hers are not . She is highly sexed and wants a baby quickly. Her background is very dysfunctional according to my friend . Again, I expressed my concerns . So now theya re officially a couple and for a very strange reason that I cannot understand, I am really relieved . Any thoughts on this? Is it because I have been his emotional shoulder to lean on and now it’s resolved ? Can’t figure it out! Thanks very much for reading this!