over the last 9 months the excluding behaviour by my 2 younger sisters has ramped up.
It started with left out of birthday cele.brations (with pics on FB of sister 2 celebrating with cousins etc at a large party)
WHen I invited them to my daughters party...they weren't around. Only to discover they indeed were. DS1 turned up 3 hours late to my DD birthday saying she'd got the wrong time, though my text had been crystal clear.
Leaving gifts for DD2 at DM house, which is a 4 minute drive away. Inviting DD2 to party....only to forget to mention it was the day before and so on and so forth.
Not acknolwedging gifts we have sent for DNs. Twice.
My eldest DD is caught up in this shit, manipulated by them all to keep things secret but she is old enough to know what is happening. My DM tells me things second hand that my DD1 (25) has told her.
Pics on FB of DS1 taking DN/s out on trips that never seem to include my DD2.
They never ring DD2 or contact us for a catch up, if only for the cousins.
My DB1 spoke about 2 sentences to me 18 months ago at a family event so that ship sailed many years ago.
So its my birthday this weekend and I know it won't be acknowledged and I am kind of prepared for that but not. I know I will have to suck it up and accept that they are ....concious uncoupling me?
There appears to be no explanation as to what this is all about. There was no falling out or row or anything. My DS2 has always had some unexplained problem with me, competitive etc. She gets upset if I lose weight...she sulked for days when I lost a few pounds when we were in our 20s before children. She cut contact when I was pregnant with DD2. said she prefereed to spend time with her barren friends (her words). Only to bounce back when she fell pregnant 3 months later.
In a way its a relief as I have become more and more uncomfortable around them. Everything I say seems to be the wrong thing. I am even worried typing this that I sound paranoid. Any time I have asked if I have done something, offended someone, they say I am paranoid
I am bipolar and I do see things in my worst moments, but I don't think I am being paranoid or imaging things.
At the end of it, I have more questions than answers as to what has happened but thats the way this goes isn't it...or is it actually me?
I can't be angry anymore, I honestly can't because it is making me ill help me move along