Hi I’m ashamed to say I’m back here needing support again. I first posted here under what is aworks after seeing payments to that site on his bank statements nearly every other day for 2yrs and then I found more payments to epoch another payment site for sex webcam sites where men could also chat and meet women. Okay since my last post on here this is how it’s progressed so my partner was using these sites in my front room paying for these women while I payed al, the bills and rent. He had nothing when I met him the bank were demanding payment from him or taking him to court he had no savings nothing I decided to help him by not taking his money so he could get back on his feet only this went on for a long time in the meantime his bank account went up he saved a good few thousand that he put in a savings account also bought bonds and got himself a new car he used to shop in primary but then could afford next and places buying himself expensive footwear and clothing he even gave his daughter four grand for a new car all this achieved throughout me being an idiot and paying the rent and bills myself while buying his food also and that’s how he repaid me by paying prostitues and using webcams in my front room using the electricity that I payed for to charge his comp up so he could sit and do his dirty deed with them yes I know I’m an idiot becouse I let it go after he promised he would never do it again he then thumbprinted his phone. I still didn’t trust him and never have since and it has caused grief so I kept him for six years while he prospered early this year he went and got himself a flat he said he wanted a flat cos he didn’t like where I lived. He knew I was getting a move and said when I move he will move in with me (he furnished his flat spent over three thousand pounds doing this ) then he went and bought himself a new comp and got internet again the deal was he would stay at mine though the week and I would stay at his weekends since he got the flat his attitude to me has got worse when I’m at the flat on a few aoccasions he has caused a rift then says he wants me to go and I don’t hear from him for days all he does when I’m there is sit on his football game or watches films. So over a week ago I’m at his when we got in bed it was late he wanted sex he came up behind me pushed his bits in to me after I said no it’s late and pushed himself in me from behind any way the next morning before going to his mams he wanted oral sex I told him when we get back he said no now we got twenty minutes before we go there undone his trousers and pushed it in my face till I gave in and gave him oral then on the Sunday I asked him if he love doing me and he said course I do and he promised (Iv even got texts from him saying we are forever always and texts saying he loves me ) so he puts on his football and up comes a women on an ad I know this ad takes hi. To sex sites I’m not stupid so I ask him please don’t go on it maybe I shouldn’t have said that but he told me to eff off and wanted me to go I went and I didn’t hea a word from him all week or the next weekend so I text him telling him what we went though with webcams and prostitues you asked me if I wanted you to leave and I said no and I make one comment I regret and we are here like this no contact from you I got a cold text back saying I’m at work all day .does that stop him texting me to put things rite so in my mind I believe he is teyi g to get rid of me but is trying to get me to do his dirty work so he doesn’t look bad he is treating me appallingly and now I won’t hear from him for a week I don’t know what to do I love him and he swears he loves me and we are forever always he text that a few days before this happened why does he do this I don’t understand why he treats me like this if he loves me as much as he says he does why would he treat me like this Iv been nothing but good to him .he never faces me to have sex it’s a,ways from behind or he wants oral sex .i came across a site that said about misogynist men and it sounds just like him I’m so hurt I don’t want to give up on us I wnat to believe what he say she that he loves me and he’s moving in with me when I get a new house im totally lost is he trying to get rid of me or is that how he is please help I can’t sleep I can’t eat properly