It was in the part that talked about our relationship and he basically said that I was spending weekends in Germany with him (which I was at that point) but that we talked and decided we didn't want to be together anymore. So I came back to the UK. So he makes it all sound simple and happy!
What really happened is I asked him before I went there that weekend did he want to break up (as there had been issues), he said no and I should come. I said if he wanted it to be over I'd rather know while I was in the UK and had my family around me etc. (I was very controlled by him, hence my stupidity in wanting it to work!). But he insisted no please come, we can have a nice weekend together.
So anyway I went there and he was then verbally and physically abusive to me (he had form for that). Culminating in me having to leave and book into a hotel, and I ended up feeling suicidal from the stress of it all. I will never forget being all alone in that hotel in a foreign country. It was a horrendous experience.
He abused me all through most of the marriage, cheated emotionally at least, possibly more. Then threw me away once I was broken! That's how it felt anyway. It took me a long time to get over the trauma of it all.
So no, I don't want to read that we had some friendly little chat and parted on good terms. Obviously I don't expect him to detail what happened! But I do want him to take ownership of the fact that he ended the marriage. He's clearly rewritten everything in his head to suit his own purposes and I know it shouldn't really matter to me what it says. But it just does. I just want him to tell the truth for once.