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How long did it take you to not feel weird?

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Teabay · 25/09/2018 16:48

I divorced my exh two years ago for being mean, unkind, scary and an unreasonable narc.
Today I bumped into a mutual acquaintance (neighbour) hadn't seen since was married.

Although I never want to go back and am proud of myself for leaving, I feel weirdly weird that I had a link with my 'old' life today. Neighbour was lovely, took my number, was v v supportive and didn't mention exh at all. So why do I feel a bit unsettled? Did this ever happen to you? How long will it last for? Should I move miles away to avoid this crossover stuff from happening again?
Help!

OP posts:
Allalittlebitshit2019 · 25/09/2018 18:46

It is a bit weird. I bumped into an old neighbour who asked how my husband was, he hadn't realised that we were no longer together!!
Dont let it bother you, just hold your head high.

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