Someone give me a virtual slap!

[crushcrushcrush]

I've name changed as I don't want this following me. Basically, I have a teenage style crush on a new colleague, which I'm pretty sure is reciprocated. I'm fairly recently separated and he's lovely, and the complete opposite of stbx. He's in a long term relationship though, hence this post. I have no desire to become the OW and I think he's too nice a person to cheat anyway, so how do I snap myself out of it? I work quite closely with him at a small company and the proximity isn't helping. Any ideas how I can get over him quickly?

Thanks.

Tinder

I agree tinder is a great distraction. You will get plenty of interest even without a picture. So easy to chat to people and even if you don't want to meet up just give it a go

Thanks for the replies. I haven't done tinder (scared!) but will see about giving it a go. I hate feeling like this, like a mopey teenager!