I've found some messages today on dps phone. something in my gut told me to look so I did.
on his fb messager were some general chat with a few women, nothing sexual but with women hes never mentioned to me before none of which he seems to have any real life connection with. some where he's deleted the previous messages but the response is clear that he's instigated the messages. some early hours in the morning when I've not been with him.
im honestly not the type to bat an eyelid at female friendships but these do not sit right. some may not class it as cheating but in my opinion it is to a degree.
the thing that gets me though is the physical appearance of these women, would have sworn are what he dislikes. he's actually told me before that he doesn't.
why? is just an attention thing? so it doesn't actually matter, he's just getting off on the attention?