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I have been widowed for a few years now so have been out of the dating game. Thing is there is a guy at work I think might like me but I'm not sure. He visits me a lot, takes the micky out of me and I catch him looking at me. We have to work together sometimes so I can't be sure. Anyone know more about this than me?

What type of working environment are you in? Is dating somebody from work a good idea? It would be a big no no for me.

It’s impossible to judge without more information. How old are you both? Is he single? What are your roles relative to each other - or in other words are you in a higher position than him or vice versa?

If he’s younger and more junior it might just be that he admires you or sees you as a mentor in some way. But if you are similar in age and neither is ‘the boss’ of the other, from what you’ve described, it’s possible (although not certain) that he likes you. Need to check he’s single though.

The thing about work based relationships isn’t an issue for me although I started work in the eighties and everywhere I worked everyone was having it off with everyone else!