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Ex harrasing me

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Louisexxx0 · 21/09/2018 15:19

Hi. I need advice me and my ex broke up about 4 months ago because I found out he was cheating on me with a younger girl. Since then I've seen messages of the stuff he was saying to her and wanted him out my life asap. But now he's been on my profile daily liking my profile and cover photos (my Facebook page is 100% private) and messaging me calling me a lying theifing cheating slut. I have blocked him but he keeps making accounts I want to go to the police but I don't want social work involved because of my daughter. Does anyone know if they would get involved?

Thanks

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Prawnofthepatriarchy · 21/09/2018 15:29

I'm not an expert but I can't imagine social services being involved. Why would they? You're not letting your DC down in any way. It's women who won't get rid of men who threaten their DC that social services get involved with.

The police are the people you want. Show them the messages. They may not do anything much but they'll have it on record. They may just have a quiet word with the bastard.

Personally I'd stay off Facebook. Then you won't see the messages.

Aquamarine1029 · 21/09/2018 16:37

Social workers will not be involved because you are doing nothing wrong and he has no part of your child's life. You need to document/screenshot absolutely everything and go to the police. He is stalking/harassing you and you need to have this on record.

Anon90 · 21/09/2018 17:46

Is he your daughters dad?

Either way, social services wont get involved. The most that would happeb is they may offer support as it could be seen as domestic violence. Theyd only forcibly get involved if you werent safe guarding your child. Which you are by not giving in to him and seeking outside support.

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