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30 days no contact but 4 week old baby

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amilosingitor · 20/09/2018 17:45

Can this be done? He's ended things. I've lost everything including my home. I have 3 children (only 1 with him) I am heartbroken. I can't eat or sleep or even function. I'm just crying and wallowing. I did not see this coming. I can't work out which version of the truth is true, that it's really over or that he wants us both to work on our stuff we have going on, get in better places and try again....I just need to know how to get through this as the more I'm going on at him the angrier he is getting and the more I am destroying everything

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Creeper8 · 20/09/2018 17:58

Similar boat, though my baby is 16 months now. it was done for me as ex cut all contact. gasnt seen our baby in almost a year.

SunflowerJo08 · 20/09/2018 17:58

Do you have a safe place for you and the children to stay? If not you need to speak to your local Women's Aid refuge.

amilosingitor · 20/09/2018 22:04

Staying at my mums although no room and really not practical. I just need to know how to get through this. He's stonewalling me. I was so incredibly happy this time last week. I don't know what's changed. I love him more than I can even say and just don't know how to leave it be.

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bluebell34567 · 20/09/2018 22:08

he doesnt sound a good man who doesnt see his newborn. he doesnt have a heart i guess.

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