So my amazing OH and father of DD has been offered a job as an electrician at an army base in Afghanistan. I'm really conflicted. He works with a man who used to do the job as has been told how good the money is and how safe it is, e.g flown straight to the army site no travel from airport to site they have an air field on base, he never leaves the vase and he said he never experienced any dangerous situation. I guess my question is what's it like being the partner of a deployed military personal. I know it's different because of the job but there still just be risk and how it affects your family. Be and OH have done long distance and thrived but it's different now that we have DD. Also I know it's morbid but my OH ones the house and were not married it's just became real that if anything happened to him that I'm vunrable.
Sorry for the long post there's just so much to consider x