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My sons girlfriend has been sex with his best friend ??

11 replies

Beckygurl67 · 20/09/2018 08:40

My daughter (27) and I (47) night while me and her were at home watching a move I casually asked her during a commercial "hows things going at work"?? And she replied that " Ruby (20) is having sex with Justin's (20) friend Anthony (19)".
She works over night shift after hours with my sons girlfriend and semi-associates in the same circle of co-workers in the recieving department at a department store.
I asked her "why you say that?" and she said "I heard about it a while back at work"
She said they've been seeing each other every other day for 6 months.
So I asked when did you hear this??
She replied " IDK I guess about 5 months ago"
I asked her why she never said anything and she "IDK I don't wanna get into it to messy"
She says they should work that out between them and their still young.

It's been 3 months since I found this out and am wondering to leave it alone or just tell him??

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ShatnersWig · 20/09/2018 08:43

Sorry, but I can't understand that at all.

picklemepopcorn · 20/09/2018 08:58

So, your DS's girlfriend works with your DD. She has known for a while that the girlfriend is cheating with a friend of your DS. Your DD doesn't want to say anything.

Is that right?

Hallouminati · 20/09/2018 09:00

So Justin is your son, Ruby is his girlfriend and your daughter has told you she's heard that Ruby has been sleeping with his friend, Anthony, behind your son's back for 6 months. Is that the gist?

It could all just be rumours though. I'd stay out of it but maybe keep a closer eye on DS to make sure he's ok.

Onemansoapopera · 20/09/2018 09:01

I would have to tell him I'd heard it but wouldn't give a source. Then let him check it out on his own. You must feel murderous towards her!

hellsbellsmelons · 20/09/2018 09:08

Didn't really understand it.
But I'm assuming your DS is being cheated on?
If so.. then bloody tell him. Poor bloke.
He deserves to know all of this.
He can then dump and move on to someone who is going to treat him with a bit of respect.
Woman up and tell him.

Beckygurl67 · 20/09/2018 09:46

Yes my daughter works with my sons girlfriend thats how she knows

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Beckygurl67 · 20/09/2018 09:47

Its true.. I messaged her and she confessed

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Littlechocola · 20/09/2018 09:53

3 months and you’ve said nothing? How will your son feel when he finds out that not only his girlfriend is cheating on him but that his mum and sister knew?

weebarra · 20/09/2018 10:09

You messaged your son's girlfriend?

Santaclarita · 20/09/2018 11:30

How does no one understand this? Ignore the names, her sons girlfriend is shagging the sons friend.

And for the love of God tell your son. Are you not on your sons side at all?

picklemepopcorn · 20/09/2018 12:09

So tell her to own up and sort herself out.

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