Could he actually be falling in love with her?

[Meghan888]

I came across his phone, I didn't read the texts but so far today they've exchanged 40 texts. She contacted me via FB telling me she'd been seeing my partner until she found out about me, she humiliated me by copying my friends & family in the message. She said things about me that my partner only knew. He denied the affair but 2 weeks on, he's talking to her again & he claims they're just friends but they text all day

Does it matter if he's falling in love? If he's having an affair & that level of contact with her does him not being in love make it acceptable?

So he knows she messaged you and your friends and family saying they were having an affair but he's still talking to her all day long? Get out now, run a mile.

Have you posted this before, several times?

Apologies if not, It's just very familiar.

He's a liar, either way.

He isn't your partner is he?
He is a cheating twat.
Ltb ASAP

After all that he's still texting her all day long, and he thinks that's okay? And you think that's okay??

That's not okay.

Who cares what he’s feeling, he’s a cheat has he’s the one who’s humiliated you, not her. He’s awful. Kick him out!

Oh not again.

Doesn't matter how many times you ask.

He's cheated on you, is still cheating on you.

Have you posted this before, several times

Thread about it as recently as last night 🙄

OP you started a thread on this last night & never returned to it. Might make more sense to just concentrate on one thread

Ah, I missed last nights

You aren't his girlfriend, OP.

Do you have children?

He's not to keen on you either way

This is about the 5th thread on the same subject asking the same thing and getting the same answers!!

Who cares, why are you even asking, hope you've told him where to go by now.

Dunno, but he's clearly not in love with you.

This is the 3rd time you posted this now

The answers are no different

And yet again the OP posts & doesn't back

Your DP doesn’t care for your feelings,your pain & shame.Hes still with OW
She forced his hand,and I’m afraid he has chosen her. He’s chosen OW
He knows you're humiliated & hurt,he knows affair is publicly known. He chose OW

You keep posting this again and again.

He is a cheater. You know this because he was with your friend when you shagged him. But that was ok, because you and him were meant to be together. Except you weren't, he is just a cheater.

He treats you like crap, you son like crap. And the reason this OW copied you friend in is because she was the one that got screwed over last time

So she humiliated you by sending you a message and copying in friends and family, and he still talks to her. If anyone did that to me, my dh would rip them a new one, he’d certainly not maintain a friendship.

He’s cheating!