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What are your thoughts on this situation?

16 replies

Meghan888 · 18/09/2018 22:04

A woman contacted me via FB telling me she'd been seeing my partner until she found out about me, she humiliated me by copying my friends & family in the message. She said things about me that my partner only knew. He denied the affair but 2 weeks on, he's talking to her again & he claims they're just friends.

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twilightsaga · 18/09/2018 22:05

She's telling the truth and he's lying to you unfortunately

DailyMailDontStealMyThread · 18/09/2018 22:09

Awful behaviour not to just message you directly but she will be telling the truth and he is lying to you.

spaceraidersrock · 18/09/2018 22:09

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Yellowsunredroses · 18/09/2018 22:10

She’s felling the truth
But shitty to copy in everyone but guess she wanted to put him

Namechangeforthiscancershit · 18/09/2018 22:11

Yeah only one person out of the two of them is telling the truth. She’s gone about it in a horrible way but she isn’t lying.

Do you want to be with him knowing he’s done this?

Yellowsunredroses · 18/09/2018 22:11

Out not put

ovendoor · 18/09/2018 22:21

I too think she's telling the truth; and even if she isn't why on earth would he be talking to her after she's done that to you?!

PatriciaHolm · 18/09/2018 22:24

Er, this sounds horribly familiar. have you posted about this before...

He's still lying to you.

Irinn · 18/09/2018 22:25

so what’s going on? he just said that it’s not truth and you happily continue your relations?
you need to talk to him and get from him proper explanations and evidences

Thatstheendofmytether · 18/09/2018 22:28

He's lying. They probably had an argument and she was getting revenge. "He's talking to her again" makes me think you knew they were talking before even although you seem to believe there was no affair.

Pacificwander · 18/09/2018 22:40

Why would your partner be talking to and remaining friends with someone who has possibly lied about having an affair with??
If she was lying the appropriate response from your partner would be shock, disbelief and disgust at this person and avoiding any contact with a liar trying to disrupt his private life

She isn't lying and your not so 'd' p doesn't care or respect you he's happy to be friends with someone who obviously wasn't lying he just thinks you'll shut up and put up

SparklyMagpie · 19/09/2018 01:46

If she's told you things only he knew, why the fuck would you stay with him? He's not only been shagging about, but he's also been disclosing very personal things about you that you've trusted him with

That alone would be it for me. He's taking you for an absolute mug

Kennycalmit · 19/09/2018 03:15

I think he’s treating you like a fool and you’d be stupid to believe anything he says

Even if nothings happened between them (unlikely) the fact he wants to remain friends with somebody who could be so nasty and vindictive says a lot too!

However I think he’s guilty as sin

Monty27 · 19/09/2018 04:02

Send his belongings to her house. End of.
They both sound awful.

HollyBollyBooBoo · 19/09/2018 04:58

Leave them both to it. They both sound equally vile and disrespectful to you. Don't waste another minute of your precious life on this situation.

Notacluewhatthisis · 19/09/2018 05:58

You posted this before haven't you?

The friend she copied in was your boyfriends ex. You shagged him while he was with her?

He treats you appallingly. You know he is a cheat. You cheated with him. You know he treats you like shit. And your child like shit too.

You know he cheated. I just can't figure out why you keep posting but not actually doing anything.

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