Light bleeding after well endowed sex

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Ive slept with my new partner three times, he is extremely well endowed length wise and girthy.

With the apologies of tmi, the last time we had sex (last night) was very passionate, lasted a long time and there were times I could feel him enter most of his length against my cervix. He has always held himself back up to now for fear of hurting me but it felt fine at the time. I was incredibly turned on and made sure to le this know if too deep.There were a few streaks of blood stained discharge when I wiped myself afterwards and this morning a bit of light spotting. I’m also feeling a little bruised.

I’m on the mini pill, am up to date with smears and had a full sti check a month ago when I met my new partner. My partner has been checked too.

Can spotting be common after sex with someone much bigger than average? His size is something new to me. If so, how long does it take to resolve? And how can I avoid it in the future? I didn’t bleed the first two times we had sex so I’m assuming it is linked to taking him deeper (I stupidly wanted to see if I could manage it).

I’m also desperate to see him for round four but am paranoid.

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Hi OP. Same here, DP is very well endowed and although we are careful, I have once or twice experienced what you have. I did go to clinic about it, and it was put down to inflammation. There was nothing else wrong. We are even more careful now

Hope not TMI but slow and gentle is the way to go, not mad hot humping😂. & definitely not your man pumping away for ages

Do go and get checked out tho

I’ve tried to get a gp or practice nurse appointment but they have none left this week and told me to wait to see if the spotting stops. They said it was likely to have been caused by him knocking my cervix repeatedly.

I’m just a bit embarrassed, I’m a 37 year old mum of two lol. The thought of sitting in a walk in centre and explaining everything with my two children there makes me feel like a teenager.

Mistress, the first two occasions were slow and gentle. Last night was the opposite. Lesson learned.

Well I'm older than you and I had to shuffle into the Walk-in Centre😂. Needs must.. You'll have to talk in code if your DCs are there. Yes lesson learned alright..

Thanks. I’m child free on Thursday. If I’m still spotting then, I will go to the walk in centre. It isn’t a proper pain, more just a sore feeling and probably because I’m not used to his size /the amount of actual thrusting time. Sorry for tmi.

Yes, this happens me sometimes with my partner too if we go a little to hard. I was examined and assured ok and with smears up to date etc so I was able to put it from my mind. But it is important to ask. I think the wall of the cervix can become sensitive to bleeding esp when on some form of pill

My ex was well endowed and I hated it! This happened all the time and in the end sex became a bit of a chore because I knew it was gunna be achey/bleedy after.. you will have to go slow (much to my dismay as I enjoy it fast and passionate sometimes) and I’d get checked out anyway tbh, just incase it’s soemthing else but I would say 99% sure it’ll be that!

I get this if I have sex close to my period time. As you are on the mini pill, you may spot more often anyway.

But Im much more likely to bleed a little when my period is due.

Mini pill can make the cervix more friable and prone to spotting

It seems to have brought on a very light period. I tend to only get a light period once every few months on the mini pill so I’m hoping that’s all it is. The bruising feeling has gone away so I’ll keep an eye on it.

I'm glad you have been reassured of no bad signs from the bleeding, but yeah, it sounds rather unpleasant. So make it gentle.

A couple of tips;

Lots of foreplay for you. To get you really relaxed, and to help your natural lubrication (better still if you orgasm before penetration!), and use an extra lubricant if it helps...

Also missionary position is goid as your vaginal canal elongates in that position, or woman on top as you have more control over depth. You can also do this trick - very slowly lower yourself onto him and move up and down super slow for 5 thrusts, then a quick one! Then 5 slow 2 quick, 5 slow 3 quick etc. You can do 10 slow ones before the quick ones too.

What that will do is make it feel extremely exciting to be going slow. He won't feel hard (excuse the pun) by, as the quick thrusts will excite things even more. Then he's likely to come a little earlier and there's less chance of you getting friction discomfort.

But yeah the most important thing is foreplay and maybe some massage to enhance the closeness and relaxation.

*hard done by

Be careful. I ended up having a surgical repair and staying in hospital for 2 nights after a similar situation! We’d only be dating 2 weeks, it happened the first time we had sex and we couldn’t again for 6 WEEKS!

CR that has really shocked me. The pain!

I couldn’t believe it. Funnily enough it didn’t hurt. I only went to the docs because I was feeling odd (bleeding internally!) and there was still a bit of blood appearing. He only sent me to the hospital just in case and said he was 99% sure I’d be sent home- the hospital treated me like a nut case until they had a look themselves! The only painful bit was when they tried to sew me up under local. She was not exactly gentle on my nether regions... TMI I’m sure but think of it as a public safety announcement! Who even knew it was possible. I’m pretty sure none of the doctors believed it was just ordinary sex with no sharp objects involved.

I was left with cervical erosions due to similar situation
Also found out later I had a tilted cervix (failed attempt to insert coil)
Due to other problems I ended up having a hysterectomy
Problem eventually solved
Positioning is most important thing

Ive been about a similar issue before. My results were fine and advised to use lube too. However I have had the same partner for years and but in any situation would advise to definitely go and get checked just in case.

Oops sorry didn't notice the added words before I posted!