Hello people here iam struggling to come to terms with my mum giving out my contact list to an ex friend.. no matter how much I think of it hurts like hell.. I wished whatever issue she had with me she should have come to talk tome about it.. this man has been saying a lot on untruthful and hurtful things as well as spilling my personal business ( we were friends for a very long time) so he knows a lot and he even created a group to talk about me and people that were in my phone seem to be enjoying this as this is gossip to them. Now I have changed my phone number three times and added new contacts and I thought it had stopped but it hasn't at all and every time when I added new contacts he managed to add them and this has become one gigantic mess.. Knowing there is a whats app group about me where this guy is saying whatever he can and knowing its my mum that put me in this position it makes me feel like i'm going crazy !!! Some of the people in my phone were business associates so this has messed up with my career as well... and right now I live with my mum and i'm job hunting .. I feel lost and helpless arggg