he's gone - no need to reply, I just need to get this out.

[AbRoller]

Just one thing we didn't see eye to eye on and he's gone. I told him to go but I didn't mean it, I was hurt. He cried and said he'd always love me. I'm such a fuckin idiot. I'll never meet anybody like him. I'm too hasty, my stupid father and stupid abandonment issues. Maybe he really did love me and I just couldn't believe him. I can't ask him to come back now

just needed to get that out

Couldn't leave this unanswered.

If you want him back tell him, don't let pride, or feeling stupid, or whatever, stop you from being happy...

Oh no, I'm so sorry . Is this a long term relationship? Do you have children together? Do you really think it's over?

Ditto PandaG - if he really means that much to you and the issue between you can be resolved, then fight for him and the relationship you obviously don't want to end. Hope you're ok x

oh abpoor you.
tell us more.x

I agree, don't let pride get in the way. You will regret it for the rest of your life if you do, take it from me.

sorry girls, mother arrived as I posted. she's still here thank god, needed to talk. she says same as you. will post when Mam leaves. tnx for support

well, I rang him and he's back. lot to talk about but I'm glad I did it.

thank you ladies for your advice

I was in such a panic that night I really thought he was gone for good. we argued over an extremely emotive subject but glad to have put my pride in my arse pocket.

tnx again.