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Viagra in his car

33 replies

geton · 15/09/2018 18:18

Just found a pack of viagra in dp car with two missing. As far as I'm aware he hasn't used them with me. I have no idea when he bought them but he is away this weekend.

How do I confront him about this and ensure I get the truth? I'm no good at confrontation and tend to believe people to easily.

The other question is when? Text him while he is away or wait for him to come back tomorrow?

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roadrunner11 · 16/09/2018 00:12

Has he had erectile problems with you before?

Studentnurse1981 · 16/09/2018 21:39

He has took them ? There was two missing sonhe obviously took them for the two night shag fest he thought he would experience . I hope this is a made up story( as others have suggested ) as no one deserves this .

FinnGermey · 16/09/2018 23:40

He probably decided to use them with you but obviously didn't want you to find out in case you questioned his masculinity, so he hid them in the car. A place he knew you wouldn't go snooping in when he was away.....

Courtney555 · 16/09/2018 23:47

Is there a possibility he's just a bit of a daft bloke with equally daft mates?

I say this because ex DP (who didn't need it) bought some for him and two of his mates. All three of them took it at the pub, grown mature men that they are Hmm

Had no effect on DP. I found the empty packet, and knee jerk reacted in a very "WTAF" way. Story was then confirmed by the girlfriend of one of the others and the pub landlord.

He didn't tell me, because it hadn't worked, and he thought I'd take the piss for being so immature.

It's a possibility it could be something plain silly like this.

Haireverywhere · 17/09/2018 00:03

Just last week my friend discovered her husband was having an affair and had taken up 'cycling holidays' alone this year after years of cycling near home. She found out he was booking annual leave and pretending to go to work and all sorts. He wasn't the type but actually he was! He even tried to convince my friend he used the Viagra with her but never said before finally confessing.

I hope you get an honest and evidenced response when you speak to him.

notapizzaeater · 17/09/2018 00:21

I'd do a bit more snooping before confronting him.

kmc1111 · 17/09/2018 03:03

Viagra can be taken up to 4 hours before any sexual activity, and for most men it doesn’t do anything until/unless they’re sexually aroused. So you really wouldn’t know if he was taking it with you.

I wouldn’t jump to any conclusions. There’s no reason he’d need Viagra for an affair if he doesn’t need it normally, so it seems much more likely to me that he’s having ED issues and wanted to keep it to himself.

user12678356 · 17/09/2018 06:21

Op, a lot of men experiment with viagra.

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